Jay Telfer may have handed over the reigns of the Wayback Times to Sandy and Peter Neilly, but he is still going to be visible in the newspaper.
 
The longtime resident of Prince Edward County will be writing Jay's Blog, a column on his ongoing love of antiques and life in the Quinte Bay area.
 
Jay's Wayback Times, founded in 1995, published 1.7 million papers in 11 years and more than 258,000 kms
were traveled for visits
and deliveries to antique shows, stores and markets.
 
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By Jay Telfer
Well, from my last report in my last editorial about how I might not be able to make it without writing
and taking multiple pictures of treen, sideboards
and Moorcroft, I did barely make it.
 
I was gently eased into my life of doing zip by having Sandy asking me daily about fonts, kerning, and why won’t a photoshop picture enter the pages. I hope I was pleasant in my answers - “Sigh, you don't know know how to put a page into Export for Pre-Press??? Sigh...”
 
Sandy had quite the awesome challenge, having used a steam driven PC most of her life and now having the miracles and foibles of a new hippidy-hop Mac. But, she (and her son, Aaron) learned very fast! Peter still refuses to know where is the on button.
 
Cottage Time
So, now is cottage time. I heard on the CBC that cottage properties were worth more than the darn expensive city homes - which every week get more and more out of my range. I also read it in the Toronto Star. Then I read it again in the Bellevile Intelligencer.
 
With two out of three I would confirm as sources, I will tell you, my brother is one lucky guy. He and his family sold his old cottage and bought himself a larger cottage last year when there was no madness about purchasing a one-up-manship property on the water. He is now on a spot called Osbourne’s Point on Lake of Bays.
 
And while we do enjoy our new vistas on the Bay of Quinte in our new/old 1840/2005 house, my brother is family. So, I guess I must go up there and say “hi” to his great family. Sigh.
 
While there last September, Nancy, my brother’s wife, had found a book, written by Thomas Osbourne, called “The Night The Mice Danced the Quadrille” - a history/biography of his his five years in the Muskoka’s, from 1875 to 1880, when he was a growing boy. I began reading it in the cottage and fell asleep. Taking the book home, I waited until the spring had sprung before I settled into the book again.
 
It is not a great book, not an earth gripping tale, but it does describe the history and the hell of squatters rights; taking over 100 acres of land with a family and, hopefully, advancing their toil and their efforts in order to get another 100 acres of land.
 
Thomas, age 15, and Arthur, 13, came up from Toronto to assist his father, William, in clearing out the land, planting crops, building a proper log house and waiting until his mother and three sisters and another brother arrived in the spring of 1876. No problems for two kids. They were a family of 10.
 
In arriving at the end of the railroad, Port Severn, and a coach on to Gravenhurst, they were stuck because the stage was full. So, the boys decided to walk to Huntsville that day. Only 38 miles ...
 
Waterfront properties were the best, since there were no proper roads from Huntsville to the Point. It meant rowing a huge flat-bottomed boat 15 miles to Huntsville and then a quick mile and a half walk with your goods: 3 1/2 hours with a tailwind, 5 1/2 when the waves were against you.
 
It is basically a tale of eating, sleeping and surviving the flies, the fleas, the porcupine thieves, the frigid cold and the squirrel stew. They were eating flapjacks made by Thomas when they arrived - “they were made without soda or raising of any kind, just flour beaten up into dough with salt and water only, and baked in a frying pan over a wood fire.” Just like McDonald's! (without butter or syrup, or anything I would eat.)
 
At age 15, his father had to go to Toronto to get some money, see his wife and bring them all back. He had Arthur, 13, to help him plant and harvest crops and look after the house. The two teens were left alone for a week and a half. Most parents I know of would perhaps leave their 15 year old alone for no more than four hours.
 
After injuring himself with an adze to his instep on the second day, he put it in cold water, used some Egyptian salve and some bandages, and was laid up for three days. Leaving his younger brother to do most of the work - harvesting the green corn, beans, peas turnips and carrots - just as every 13-year-old would strive for ...
 
In hearing his eight-year-old brother’s laugh, he knew the family had arrived. Only the father was not with them. He was still in Bracebridge trying to sort out the goods the family had brought with them. They had a two-horse cart with two drivers and the family and it turned over past Bracebridge, losing 20 of the 24 chickens they had brought along.
 
So, the three girls and Sam and his mother thought it would be a good walk - over corduroy roads, unmarked trails, a distance of over 50 miles. It was the same for all of their travels. William, the mid 50’s father, had no money from the U.S. as he had planned, so he walked from Toronto to the Point in three days.
 
No planning ahead
For most people today, they would need to plan ahead, do at least a quarter year of training and then venture forth. And have their entire tale told in a three-part piece in the Globe and Mail. “Golly, it was tough. I had to change my $135 Nike shoes every day! I ran out of OFF on the second day.”
 
These people had one suit of clothes and that was it. After being a city-bred kid, he was a dishevelled boy coming back to Huntsville. The wife of the hotel owner said “What has your father done to you?” Thomas wrote, “We were like two ragamuffins, swelled up with fly bites, browned by the sun, the oil of tar (to keep the flies away), long hair and our city clothes in tatters. I judge we presented a wild picture.”
 
Hmmm. Nothing wrong there in history. Except for the fly bites, I can only think of a gang of teens with their long hair, droopy clothes in tatters at the Scarborough Mall - or any other mall, park or take-out restaurant.
 
It tells of near death experiences with other settlers, of finding a dead husband, unconscious wife and baby in a new cabin because there was nothing else to eat. It tells of the boys growing and getting stronger. Of Thomas’s loading 50 bushels of potatoes in the flat bottomed boat and the having to carry the 35 pound bags a mile and a half to the Portage. Of meeting up with young Indians who they lived with and liked. Their fore-parents had named the lake Trading Lake, and wanted to know where their old hunting grounds were.
 
His wife, after a very tough winter, took the four children and all moved back to Philadelphia after the first year.
 
At age 19, Thomas, while Arthur and his father were away for two days, shot a deer in the lake and carried it into the canoe, hung it up and dressed it. It weighed over 225 pounds. He also caught about 80 fish, all good size and began dressing them. All in one day. Wow, Should I watch a fishing show or a hunting show on my satellite TV?
 
On one occasion, he rowed the big skiff with a barrel of fish to Huntsville.On arriving, the postmaster wanted it weighed. So, Thomas rolled it up from the dock and set it on the scales. It weighed 235 pounds.The boy was strong! He learned so much of chopping trees, of building, of carpentry, of burning brush, of fishing, of hunting, of gathering berries, of carrying an 80-pound canoe and all their goods over multiple portages.
 
Story of survival
He was a woodsman. There was nothing about love, nothing about lust, nothing about dreaming of the “scrawny” hotel owner's daughter. It was only survival. He never discussed why they were doing this for years with his father, never another question about burying the potatoes they harvested. They were told to do it and they did it.

At age 20, he decided to head back to Philadelphia and work in his brother's textile business.
 
He wrote the book in 1934, at age 75, as his “Truthful story of my actual experiences, and without exaggeration.” It is a wonderful tale of fingers really filthy survival.
 
As I plan on going up to Lake of Bays in July (yes, family again, sigh), I know using Muskol and leaving it on your fingers will have a cheap plastic glass melt as you are drinking from it. That’s about the only survival tale I could hand you.
 
We know the past couple of generations worked harder than we have, but in reading this book I was exhausted and needed a deep nap.
 
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