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Cosway's Corner - Family tree research Part 1 of 2
 
Family tree research grows your roots
 
By John Cosway
That long and winding road the Beatles sang about in the 1970s would best describe the path taken by people researching their family trees.
 
It is definitely long and winding, with numerous detours, roadblocks and dead-ends along the way, but getting to know your roots trumps all of the brick walls.
 
Genealogy can be a lifetime commitment, but thanks to the Internet and a growing number of fellow researchers in the loop, a lot of footwork has been eliminated.
 
Why devote time, energy and money to track your DNA trail? As one anonymous genealogist once said: Trees without roots fall over.
 
So let's grow those roots.
 
Put yourself in the shoes of a detective or investigative reporter with a goal of uncovering the full story about your ancestors, who they were and how they lived, piece by piece until a picture forms.
 
Sure, you might find a few skeletons in the closet along the way - horse thieves, stagecoach robbers, politicians etc. - but as in collecting antiques and collectibles, the hunt is the hunt.
 
Our family tree research has been a family affair off and on since the 1970s, first with a younger sister, Sylvia Cosway. But it was my brother, Bill Cosway, who raised the bar in 1996 and is still going strong 12 years and 8,000-plus tree names later.
 
If you have the patience required and are ready to commit, consider making the purchase of the few essentials needed to get started a family Christmas gift and launch your search in the New Year.
 
The essentials include a hard copy filing system and if you are going to be using a computer, a family tree program to input all of your finds.
 
Begin with what you know and meticulously work your way back. Genealogists recommend sitting down with relatives for Q&A sessions using a tape recorder or video camera.
 
"Your living relatives can provide so much information about their past and stories of interest that will not be available when they are dead and buried," says Bill Cosway.
 
"Many people do not start their family research until after most older family members have died, so ask questions of your parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and other relatives now while you can."
 
Upcoming Christmas gatherings would be an opportunity to get started. Prepare a list of questions to ask, or go with the flow and allow your family members to talk for as long as they are willing.
 
"You will be amazed by the wealth of information they will share if asked," says Bill.
 
Our cousin Bill Cosway in Ottawa, for example, was encouraged to put his childhood memories in booklet form, which he did in his 70s, and then wrote a book on his memories of WW2.
 
Armed with information from living relatives, move on to your detective work and tackle the task of learning everything you can about your dead relatives.
 
You will soon learn that around every corner there is a commercial research service asking you for money. But hold off on the paid services until you take full advantage of all of the free resources available in Ontario and beyond.
 
My brother, a Family Tree Maker program user, says his top five free research tools are: Archives, public libraries, family members, cemeteries and newspapers.
 
The archives: The hub for provincial records is the Archives of Ontario at 77 Grenville Street in downtown Toronto. Here you can research birth, marriage and death records, read wills and estates files, scan vintage newspapers on microfilm etc. The generous reading room hours provide ample time for making progress on any given day.
 
Libraries: If you can't get to the archives, arrange for microfilm reel loans through the Interlibrary Loan Department. Reels can't be removed from local libraries, so schedule visits that will allow adequate time to scan the reels. Libraries can also be a source for books on local history and nostalgic vintage telephone, street directories and voters' lists.
 
Cemeteries: Hundreds of cemeteries dot the province's landscape and each and every grave has a story to tell. While some cemetery caretakers are organized, even computerized, others cannot account for 100% of their interred. Tombstone readings can be next to impossible because of age and wear, but just finding graves can be rewarding.

Family: Interviewing older family members can provide a wealth of information. Ask them about their childhood years; how they met their husbands/wives, what they did for entertainment, street addresses in their lives, jobs held, cars owned, journeys travelled, their dreams, achievements and heartbreaks. Some of their answers could surprise you.
 
Newspapers: Consider yourself fortunate if any of your ancestors lived in communities with newspapers that have been preserved on microfilm. Papers from the past can be a gold mine. Social notes, weddings, births and deaths, business stories, moves to other communities etc. Newspaper accounts can add colour and character to your ancestors.
Countless hours of meticulous research can be an emotional roller coaster ride for dedicated family tree researchers. There are the highs of "eureka" discoveries and the lows of frustrating roadblocks and dead-ends.
 
Each new confirmed discovery is comparable to a mini lottery win. Another of the many gaps filled in and it's time out for a little happy dance.
 
Our Cosway-Johnson-Dommett-Burns ancestor discoveries include:
 
William B. Roadhouse, a Brampton Conservator newspaperman who went on to become Ontario's deputy minister of agriculture from 1912 to 1930;
 
John Duck, who owned the landmark 1800s Duck's Tavern on the Etobicoke waterfront, catering to stagecoach riders;
 
Jack Cosway, a Salvation Army musician who was too ill to travel to Europe with the Salvation Army band on the ill-fated Empress of Ireland in May of 1914.
 
We have also learned members of our Johnson clan mingled with William "Buffalo Bill" Cody in the 1800s in Dixie, where Cody was baptized.
 
We thought Richard and Maria Cosway, famed British miniaturist artists, might be ours, but no luck. Maria, as widely publicized, had an affair with Thomas Jefferson in the late 1700s.
 
One eureka moment for my brother was learning that a great grand uncle gave his newborn daughter up for adoption when his wife died shortly after giving birth in 1885. He had two young sons and felt he couldn't properly care for her.
 
The most frustrating roadblock: "Knowing that five ancestors are buried in Dixie Union Cemetery in Mississauga and no one will, or can, acknowledge they are buried there. It's like our past has been overlooked, passed by."
 
With each discovery, we gain respect for the hardships, the personal tragedies and the peaks our ancestors experienced and achieved. Our Irish and English ancestors on our mother's side sailed to Canada in the mid-1800s and through ship lists, we can account for our father's parents and siblings arriving from England on two ships in 1913.
 
We know of farmers, maltsters, pub governor, newspaperman, railroad worker, world war vets, blacksmiths, coopers, undertakers, tavern owners and yes, even a politician or two.
 
When we drive the roads our ancestors travelled in wagons and view buildings they used - including an 1830s house in Mississauga, built by our great-great grandfather and still occupied today - it connects us to their lives.
 
It is a lasting bond that wouldn't exist if we were not interested in our roots.
 
The never-ending quest to fill in all the gaps on the DNA trail as far back as time - and public records - permit has become easier with a multitude of Internet sites and services.
 
In the next issue, we'll talk about genealogy on the Internet and how family tree research has become a global community.
 
Photo 1: A three-generation 1930s photo in front of the Johnson house on the Dundas Hwy. in Dixie (now Mississauga), built in 1830 and still being used 178 years later
 
Photo 2: The genealogy hunt includes cemetery tombstone readings. Epitaphs can provide insights into the character of your ancestors
 
 
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